We occasionally hear people explain that they haven’t prepared a Will because they don’t really care what happens after they have died – they’ll be dead. This attitude always dismays me a little because writing a Will isn’t about you – your Will is for your loved ones. The excuse is often followed up with “I don’t need a Will, it’s obvious what will happen to my things”. A recent news article highlighted why these approaches are so disrespectful to one’s family.
In Canada, you can claim a tax free spousal rollover from retirement savings, as long as it is all completed within a year. A 54 year old widower lost his wife to cancer, and was the Executor of the estate. According to the rules, he has to submit the paperwork with the bank; including the death certificate, Will and probably probate documents. In this case, the bank lost everything and he was supposed to follow up. But guess what; he has 3 children from 5 years old to 16 and he had just lost his wife. In his words “I was overwhelmed with worry, and the priorities were always the kids. I was reading up on what happens with kids after they lose their mom….Oh, God. There were too many emotions and too many other things happening with the kids.” In this unfortunate case, he simply lost track and was expected to pay tax on the $80,000 savings (the bank has since stepped in and offered to pay).
This expression of being overwhelmed is very common for loved ones when a family member passes away. Throughout these emotionally desperate times there is a funeral to arrange, banking, taxation, care for the family, the list is endless. Many people have a hard time filing their taxes at the best of times, so imagine trying to do it shortly after your partner has passed away.
There are two key points to understand. Firstly, taking care of the bureaucracy is usually much easier with a Will in place. Furthermore, the Will allows you to choose an Executor for your estate, and given the emotional toll on your spouse, it may make sense to appoint another family member or trusted friend to take care of the paperwork.
I find it odd that people care so much for their loved ones while they are alive, but leave them with a legacy of problems by dying without a Will. It only takes about 20 minutes to write a Will at legalwills.ca, legalwills.co.uk and uslegalwills.com and costs less than dinner and a movie.
Writing a Will isn’t for your benefit, it is for your loved ones.